My list of what I want

1.      Go to church as a family: I feel that if we build our family of God’s principles and allow Him to guide us it will make us stronger. Not only going to church but incorporating bible principles to our lives as a life style. I believe that it is up to both parents and ultimately the head of the household.

2.      My goal for us is to focus on family and build a strong unity. I want us to do more together and make decisions together. I also would like to have more involvement with the boys.

3.      What I expect from you is to be more open keep me involved in your ideas or purpose of our family.

4.      I want us to do things the right way. I don’t want us to move in together without being married.

5.      I would like us to be best friends and also lovers.

6.      I expect complete support for each other no matter what.

7.      I expect us to be honest and No Secrets!

8.      I don’t want use to argue in public.

9.      I would like to be asked and not told all the time.

10.     I want to be included in the decisions that are made concerning us. Not only included but involved.

11.     I want to feel like it’s not this is what I am doing rather your with me or not. It makes me feel like you don’t care.

12.     I don’t like to be out of the loop with anything.

13.     I feel that if we can’t talk to each other about the problem then there is a bigger problem.

14.     At the end of the day people’s opinion are there opinions but ultimately when it’s all said and done, the decisions we make ultimately affects you and I.

15.     Overall I just need us to be on the same page with what we want and what we expect out of each other.

16.     I don’t want to always feel I need to tell you everything which is fine, and you tell me what you want.

17.     Ultimately no one should know more about you then me, or no one should any more about me then you.

18.      It’s all or nothing, ride or die!

19.     Not just for me but also for you!

20.     My final thing is sex it is very very important and I don’t believe in not having it on a regular. If we are going to be together I must have it, non negotiable.

21.     Wait my final thing to my final thing is No one comes before Me but God! I will not put any before you! I expect the same things from you as you of me.

Sheila Natt
3/21/12